2: The Power of Self-Awareness

Welcome to Module 2 of “Navigating Relationships: Spotting Red Flags and Valuing Yourself”. In this module, we’ll be focusing on the vital role of self-awareness in recognising red flags.

Understanding Self-Awareness

Self-awareness involves recognising our feelings, motives, and patterns. It’s about understanding who we are, what we want, and why we respond the way we do. In relationships, self-awareness allows us to understand our needs, identify our non-negotiables, and notice when something doesn’t feel right – like when a red flag arises.

The Role of Intuition

Our intuition, or “gut feeling,” often knows when something is off before our conscious mind does. Developing self-awareness enhances our intuition and helps us trust it. We’ll explore techniques to help you tune into your intuition and use it as a reliable guide in your relationships.

Emotions as Data

Emotions can serve as critical data points in understanding our experiences. If a situation or person consistently triggers negative emotions, this can be a significant red flag. By tuning into our feelings and understanding their sources, we can make more informed decisions about our relationships.


To start honing your self-awareness and intuition, practice a daily check-in with yourself. At the end of each day, spend a few moments reflecting on the day’s events, how you felt, and why you think you felt that way. Write your thoughts and feelings in a journal.

Cultivating Self-Awareness: Mindfulness and Emotional Regulation

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for enhancing self-awareness. By practicing mindfulness, we can become more present and attentive to our feelings and experiences, enabling us to spot red flags more effectively. We will also cover emotional regulation techniques that can help manage responses to potential red flags, allowing for more thoughtful and measured reactions.


Practice mindfulness daily. This could be through meditation, mindful walks, or simply paying more attention to everyday activities like eating or breathing. Take note of any changes in your self-awareness and emotional regulation.

Also, continue with your daily check-ins from the activity, paying special attention to any patterns you notice in your feelings and responses.

Congratulations on completing Module 2! By enhancing your self-awareness, you’re taking a critical step towards recognising and responding appropriately to red flags in relationships. Next, we’ll explore a critical compass in navigating relationships: your personal values. See you in Module 3: Clarifying Your Values.